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3/1/09 Bob ...Capay valley,(northwest of Sacramento), California...64 yr.old male dom Experience: novice: Seeking:female 45to60 Interests: I am very sensual,fun loving,love the outdoors,retired,widowed,and love to please my special submissive lady.I respect all limits and truly enjoy bedroom bondage.My sub. must be slender to medium build,enjoys the outdoors,old cars,and just laying in front of the wood stove enjoying each other boma44@frontiernet.net

3/1/09 MASTER CURT ...SAN DIEGO, California... MALE DOM Experience: VERY EXPERIENCED: Seeking:MATURE FEMALE SUB/SLAVES 50+ Interests: Master Male Dom in San Diego Seeks Mature,Leggy Female Sub/slave aged 50+ IN THE SAN DIEGO AREA for training and punishment when necessary to include spanking, bondage,NT and humiliation when necessary to assure complete subjugation and submission.
mstrcrt@hotmail.com

9/27/08 Liset ...
Northern California, California... 26 - F - Submissive Experience: Novice Seeking: Female or couple Interests: This ad is placed by Liset's email-Mistress, Sacha. I am looking for someone to take over my role as Mistress in real life. Liset is very willing, might go up to 24/7. Please contact me if you are interested.
sacha11@live.nl

4/17/08 nudemalemodele...
San Diego, California... 49 straight male submissive Experience: semi novice Seeking: F any age Interests: NudeMaleModele eager to serve and perform for the amusement of women. I am an obedient and easygoing submissive male with a sense of humor. Can be discreet at first then will follow your orders as you have a good time alone or with your girlfriends in attendence. Good break for housewives or normal women. Amateur nude model will pose for art photos or videos etc while you play the dominatrix. I am a regular nice guy, very honest and eager to please you. Just write me at nudemalemodele@yahoo.com

11/18/07 LordHedon...
Redding Ca... Dom My level of experience is: experienced I am seeking: females 21to45 My main interests: Whips chains stringent bondage suspension leather/lace waspwaisted corsetry.......paddles ect. Anything else?: Im looking for a proportionat ladyfriend with a corset trained waist who shares my interest for a 24/7 l.t.r.I'm tall 6'4 well built good looking perfect 9"cock.trustworthy honest respectful of limits.Romantic,devoted ,fun to be around sick sense of humor mountains lakes creeks back dirt roads reclusive i smoke drink a little on weekends 45 yrs old very intelligent.If i sound like Master Right,email me! Lordhedon@aol.com

6/6/07 gary...
modesto, ca... 62, male, subexperienced My level of experience is: experienced I am seeking: mature female My main interests: life-long high-heel fetishist, groveling high-heel voyeur and passable crossdresser seeks to meet mature woman obsessed with high-heels. be any age over 45yrs, any race, shape or looks so long as wearing, buying head turning stilettos is highest priority. am collector and high-heels vendor at fetish flea market where assistance is sought. need female to be high-heel exhibitionist sympothetic to this fetishists erotica. garyfournier@sbcglobal.net

11/8/06 Gypsy...
Novat, California... 55, Male, Dom My level of experience is: Medium I am seeking: F, 20-55 My main interests: This adventurer and world traveler is ready for new adventures with a slim, sub, feminine female (straight or bi) who needs to be protected and dominated. dal@partnersinspirit.com

10/1/06 Ron...
moreno valley california... Submissive My level of experience is: medium I am seeking: 30-55 My main interests: I am very submissive love to give head..Die for forced cream pies You may spnak and bound me blind fold me and use me. envoy1@adelphia.net

9/28/06 Russ...
San Leandro, California, USA... 57, Male, dom My level of experience is: Novice I am seeking: (F) 50/65 My main interests: I am a romantic down to earth laid back man, who's looking to meet a sincere honest single romantic submissive woman with inner beauty. Size, ethnicity doesn't matter. I'm a non-smoker/drinker/drug user. I have no interest in one-night stands or the bar scene. Are you always thinking about how much you love it when your breasts are sucked, caressed and played with? I think it's a part of a woman's body that can get over looked when people are in a rush to get to "the deed". Such a sensual and sexual thing. Mmmmm Are you always thinking about how much you enjoy being bent over a man's lap and have your bottom turned a light red from a sensual mild spanking? Why not act and join me in a relationship that would include breast suckling, fun safe spanking. Breast suckling, spanking and touching can be very fun in itself. I am not into heavy pain. kbx5155@yahoo.com

9/17/06 raknarius...
los angeles... 44, male, dom My level of experience is: novice I am seeking: fenale any age My main interests: hi, im new, i havent done any of this but interested, i wrote a paper on it and seems very interesting, at first being a dom seemed uncaring and abusive person then i really looked into it, and id like to give it a try. raknarius@hotmail.com

8/17/06 Wayne...
San Diego, CA USA... 21 straight slave My level of experience is: medium I am seeking: 18-40 female My main interests: Seeking a Mistress for 24/7 ownership that is kind but sadistic. I have few limits and enjoy many thing. I like being a house boy where I will do chores. I love being in bondage or caged, used as furniture, pony play, be your pet on a leashed, I like pain, whips, mask, collars, tattoo of ownership, beating me, biting me, and isolated. I like many other things but these are my favorite. Shardoflight@gmail.com

8/14/06 Pantyboy...
riverside county, riverside... 25, M, Submissive My level of experience is: novice I am seeking: Female any age My main interests: I am new to this, but i know that this is my calling to serve and obey the wishes of my mistress. please send me some basic information of yourself, even a picture but its not required. pantyboy_4_you@yahoo.com

6/2/06 chip...
usa, san diego, ca... 40,sub white male My level of experience is: medium I am seeking: female,18-50 My main interests: submissive white male,6ft. 200lbs. blue eyes,brown hair,completely shaved genitals always. looking to serve dominate female,slave punishment training,and pet slave sharing. akaz689@aol.com

5/6/06 Roughsadist...
Bay Area, California, USA... 40 Sadist Master/Daddy My level of experience is: Experienced I am seeking: Female 18-30 My main interests: Extreme, sadistic, demanding MASTER seeks a no limit maso pain slut for intense hard use. Looking for a young, highly submissive girl who wants to be dehumanized, humiliated, tortured, and treated as complete property. Into biting tits, fisting, whipping, heavy verbal abuse, electro, caging, and much more. Girls 18-24, slender, long hair are +++. Roughsadist@Hotmail.com

2/12/06 SirAlex...
Fontana California... 22 Male Dom My level of experience is: Medium I am seeking: Im looking for females 21 to 35 My main interests: Im looking for a very submissive female or a slave for I can do what ever I want with her. She has to have cute feet and wear high heels. chris_qui2000@yahoo.com

2/6/06 Bluefeather...
Redding, Ca., USA... Submissive Cd My level of experience is: Novice I am seeking: M,F, any age My main interests: It was in 2001. I met this guy at a motel in So Cal. When we entered the room he immediately told me to remove my clothes and to kneel in front of him. He then put a leather studded collar around my kneck and told me that as long as it was around my kneck I would obey him. He then grabbed the leash that was attached to the collar and told me to get on all fours and led me around the room then he sat down and told me to turn around so that my ass was in front of him and told me to spread my cheeks He then started to finger my ass or my pussy as he called it and said that he needed to find out how tight I was.He then put one of his fingers inside of me and I gasped. He then withdrew his finger and asked me if I was a virgin which I replyed No. "No Sir is the proper answer!' and said that he was going to have to teach me a lesson. He then pulled out a riding crop and used it untill I could almost not take it anymore and told me that that was what I would get if I did not completely obey and satisfy him. He then stood me in the front of the room, handed me a bottle of baby oil and ordered me to put the oil all over my body . He told me to carress myself and play with myself, especially with my pussy, and to fuck myself with my fingers. He then grabbed the leash and led me into the bathroom, tied my hands behind my back and told me to kneel in front of him. He told me that he was going to have to train me to worship and familiarized every inch of my body with his hard cock. I could smell the scent of it all over me He did this in front of a large mirror so that I would have to be able to see everything that was to happen to me and during this initiation to his member, he also tied me up into some pretty compromising positions, always in a position where I could see myself. During this whole time he would call me names such as dirty little whore, slut, cum whore, bitch etc. and told me that I needed to get fucked, which during that session he did so repeatedly and gave me a cum bath, inside and ou He also had me prepare my pussy for his cock by making me fuck myself with a dildo because he said I was too tight and needed to be loosened up. In all, I had a total of four sessions with him in that motel room, each of them different. One of the times he had a partner join him and they both used me for their sexual pleasure. Another time he made me dress up as a woman and told me that I was going to be his whore, tied me in various compromising positions, and took photos, as he used me for his pleasure.This forced crossdressing humiliated and really excited me at the same time.Ever since then I have fantisiized of someday having another sexual experience along these lines.Attached is one of the pics from that session. My name is Louis, I'm 6'1", 190 lbs, long dark hair, smooth body, pt. Nat. Am// pt. white,42 yrs old, above average in looks, open minded, disease free, bi sexual, submissive in nature and am looking to get together with one or perhaps more dominant people for an erotic experience,anywhere ranging from mild, to wild as long as it is safe and pre mutually agreed upon.PLease email me at bluefthr@nativeweb.net and hope to hear from you in the near future with details of what you are into. Louis bluefthr@nativeweb.net

1/30/06 mastersaberandslaverose...
Riverside, California... 53MaleMaster/42Femaleslave Our level of experience is: Master very ex, slave novice We are seeking: seekcpls 45-65year old or groups in same age range Our main interests: Very experienced Master Saber asks for devoted couple, dominant/straight or bi male, sub bi female, to help Him further the training of His newly collared slaverose, who is very naive to all things in the sexual realm of the lifestyle. Ideally the couple we meet are also devoted to each other, very fun-loving and genuine, love to laugh, and are open to all activities whether in or out of the bed. As well as sharing rose with the Master of your household, He would like to also share your girl, and hopes that both Masters can watch the two girls at play, something rose has NEVER experienced at all! rose needs to experience further pain/pleasure play, and pretty much anything goes. The specifics can be discussed beforehand so no one misunderstands or ends up with hurt feelings, because this is to be fun for all of us, not hard work! We'd love to be friends and socialize with you both in the vanilla world also at whatever activities we all agree upon and in addition to play partners we seek lifelong friendships. Master is used to this, but rose is feeling lonely, just discovering that when she tells her vanilla friends what she's been up to, they have a tendancy to turn a sickly shade of green (disgust or jealousy...you decide!). Because rose is new to this, please do not reply if you are not caring, honest people who really want to share good times. Master does NOT want her first forays to be bad ones, He would love for her to see that there are plenty of wonderful people on this side of the fence as well! Please write today, we can't wait to meet with you! We have no problem coming to you, provided you aren't in east outer jahbib! We are both clean, well-groomed, and educated folks who are just like any couple you'd meet at the mall....we aren't vampires or punk rockers, just an everyday domineering Master who weilds a great whip and His slave, collar locked upon her lovely throat and chained at His feet...what else could you want? Again, not to make too much of a point of it, but PLEASE be genuine people. Let's give rose a good time of it, show her that the M/s, D/s lifestyle is as wonderful as we know it is! mastersgirlgoodslave@yahoo.com

12/22/05 BiFemme25...
San Francisco... 25 My level of experience is: novice I am seeking: Female age 22-55 My main interests: I would like to be trained to become a Mistress. I would like to meet a Mistress who has very submissive female slaves. My main interests to be trained in are suspension, clothespins, and wax. funanna_666@hotmail.com

11/12/05 Lord Phantom Prince...
San Diego California... Male Blk Dom, 47yrs of age My level of experience is: very experienced I am seeking: Castle Keep Slave females (any race) 21-35yrs of age My main interests: I am seeking a very unique core of extreme female slaves with class, but very eager to pleasure at multi levels and who are very discipline. Bi-female slaves are preferred as I have a wide array of (VIP) bdsm clientele that are both female/male. You must be very single, drama free, d.d. free, super clean and willing to take your limits to the ultimate level of desire. If accepted; you will be contacted by email with instructions and interview appointment. Please Note: If you do not fit the above description or do not wish to be owned/collard as property, then save yourself the time/energy and move on, this ad is for the real slaves who know there mark in this lifestyle only! Please no males, tranny's or wanna be's need reply..... PhantomPrince929@yahoo.com

8/5/05 Letmeworshipit...
San Diego, Bay Area, L.A., Desert - California... 43, Male, Submissive My level of experience is: Novice I am seeking: Male My main interests: I am into the serious worship of the male organ, scrotum and seed. I prefer Hung and Cut Oral Tops who are cock-centric and have a phallis deserving of my attention, worship, service and drainage. Ht/Wt proportionate and under 50 only, please. I am a blond, very clean-cut, attractive guy, 43, 5'11", 180...a successful professional who has a sincere love for the male organ and seed. I do NOT email pics for business purposes but am as I describe. A quality guy for quality oral tops! letmeworshipit@yahoo.com

07/02/05 Roman...
Orange County, CA... Late 30's Dom/Sub/Switch My level of experience is: Medium I am seeking: Female age open My main interests: Enjoy mild to severe punishment. Piercing, b/d, worship - serving and servicing. Mutual fulfillment at all levels. Experience level from beginner to advanced is fine. Can also switch if desired for mutual desires. If you can dish it out - I can take it - let's go the whole distance. rdhceo2@hotmail.com

5/17/05 midniterider_74...
Santa Barbara California... 36 My level of experience is: experienced I am seeking: 18-50 My main interests: Are you ready to follow my directions? Contact me----now. I'm looking for a sub who is prepaired to be taught new and exciting venues for my pleasure and to explore the heights and depths of her sexuality. midniterider_74@yahoo.com

4/2/05 tyedtite...
California San Diego, 92111... 38, male, Switch My level of experience is: mediium I am seeking: female 18 to32 My main interests: Made to perform solo sex acts in front of other females. Also I want to be tyed up real good and made to eat pussy as long as you want me to and if I don't do it right I get spanked hard till I get it right. Also while I'm tyed up make me cum and don't stop stroking my cock after I cum just keep at it no matter how hard I try to get away till I cum a second time. frdran3@netscape.net

3/10/05 Kalifornier...
Kalifornien, USA... 41, M, Dom My level of experience is: Novice I am seeking: f, 18-50 My main interests: Ich mag die peitsche, s/m, leder und Kaefige. Hallo devote, gehorsame, unterwuerfige Deutsche Frauen, Hier ist einen ledig, 41 J. Dom in Kalifornien der dich sucht. Wenn du interesse an E-mails oder vielleicht auch schlieslich treffen hast, schreibe mich einfach. Bis dann. HerrMeister@mail.com

3/2/05 Lynn...
harmony, ca... 21f domme My level of experience is: very experience I am seeking: couple any age. uzxwl@earthlink.net

2/04/05 Mr. Intensity...
San Francisco, California... age 44 Male Dom My level of experience is: medium I am seeking: 18-56 My main interests: bondage,domination inflicting pain being forceful. i am a Massage Therapist so when i done having my way with you if you have been a good little girl daddy just might reward you. Sir_Oglaigh@yahoo.com

1/24/05 KELLY...
OAKLAND, CALIFORNA...41 Y/O FEMALE BLACK FEMALE DOMME My level of experience is: VERY EXPERIENCED I am seeking: M-F 35-45 My main interests: I'M A BLK DOMME THAT SEEKS 24/7 FEM/DOM RELATIONSHIP WITH A PROFSSIONALLY EMPLOYED CAUCASIONA MALE, MY PREFRENCES ARE CHASTITY, COPORAL PUNISHMENT, TOTAL ENSLAVEMENT. RELOCATION TO ME IS DEMANDED AND REQUIRED W/O HESITATION. BESHERT2001@YAHOO.COM

01/10/05 Master David ...
San Francisco, California... 39/M/DOM My level of experience is: Very Experienced I am seeking: White F (18 - 30) My main interests: Very tough and strict Dom seeks a truly submissive girl who knows her place. One whose life is devoted to obeying her Supreme Lord and Master. Master seeks 24/7 TPE D/s relationship with Slave contract. Limits are respected and expanded. ddv52001@yahoo.com

11/17/04 yellovv ...
Bay Area, CA...22/m/Domme My level of experience is: Novice I am seeking: F - Age is not a matter My main interests: Master and Teacher. Ruler and God. Have you ever wanted to explore the sadistic to the sensual; the psychology of craving and desire? I have a thirst for giving sensation and seeing you respond. I am the action; you are the reaction. I thrive on the taking of power - the flow of control and power as it passes from you to me. It is a rare opportunity to release yourself of pressures, responsibilities and duties as I lead you beyond to a new plateau or through a personal exorcism. I enjoy variety and diversity in scenes and elements; from a gentle, sensual and sensitive experience to severe, unyielding and complete authoritive edge play and all points in between... My range of play is extensive, whether your desire or focus is to be tortured, restrained, suffer corporal discipline, indulge in your fetishes, get in touch with your spiritual side, endure heartless humiliation, or to receive an extraordinary mindfvck. My dominant style is intuitive, seductive and erotic in nature, combines sensual and sadistic applications and administrations. I can be strict, domineting, condescending or a compassionate, caring and playful Emperor, but above all, erotic. I expect a submissive to be able to honestly express and articulate what their personal needs and expectations are. Your limits are always respected. Your responsiveness and your willingness to relinquish your mind and body are what I require. I am genuine in my approach and in my applications. There are so many areas for us to explore with one another. Our abilities to communicate with each other about our desires are essential. I derive joy from true masochists, sincere perverts, couples and anyone who wishes to explore every facet of BDSM in its entirety. Calculated but sultry, intense disciplines are what I offer. yellovvyellovv@yahoo.com

11/17/04 Nocblkmaster ...
Corona CA ...40, Black Male Dom My level of experience is: experienced I am seeking: females My main interests: seeking open-minded lady (white, asian or hispanic) for discreet meetings and traning sessions to be my sex slave...not 24/7...daytime encounters are best. no pain, drugs, animals or children. no bathroom play or scarring. willing submission. nocblkmaster@aol.com

11/15/04 Sir Mal ...
Canyon Country/ Encino, Ca...I am a 53 yr old Dom My level of experience is: Very experienced. I used to train tops and bottoms (Masters/slaves & subs too). I am seeking: I am looking for a female play partner (possibly a potential sub later). Any age/race/experience. Be disease free. No BBWs. My main interests: I am a hedonistic sadist. I love to spank, paddle, flog, cane and whip pain puppys who love the feel of a good impact. I can play light (for newbies) or hard (for masochists). Knife play is also fun. I want your willing/enthusiastic submission. Bondage, sensory dep., electrical, humiliation, exhibitionism all are fun too. Yes, I will train you and allow you to experience anything else you may have an interest in trying (other than scat). Let's play...and see where it leads. masteratlarge1@yahoo.com

10/21/04 TM119...
Fontana, Southern California...21 Male Domminant My level of experience is: Novice I am seeking: Looking for a submissive female(s) of a reasonable age range as mine, I like attractive, small framed Asians especially, Not perticularly attracted to African-Americans. My main interests: extremely open, focus on teaching and mentoring. Very few people take young dominants seriously. It's kinda sad sometimes, to be in such a category. I'm egnigmatic, everyone I know tells me this (whether they like me or not), I have the spirit of someone half my age, the wisdom of someone twice my age and the personailty of noone else you'll meet at any age...I suppose that's all a really uh...fuhsistikated way of saying I'm a 21 year old male Dom that's never been kissed and yet knows for a psychological assurance that I'm dominant. Composition Major in college, extremely sophisticated and humerous and at the same time, painfully inexperienced. Attractive, slim, flexable caucasion. Sadly a natural-born teacher will have to be taught a few things before I start to pick up, but once I sink into the lifestyle I will hold much promise. 7 years of nothing but my own philosiphy and others input for insight gives one an outlook worth respecting to a degree. If your wondering where the catch to all this is, I'm slightly autistic (aspergers syndrome, high functioning), if that explains anything. very extraordinarilly patient with others, no matter how intellegent (not with myself),intollerant of games and deciet, not matter how beniegn. I am on my heels in patient seeking, don't let me get away. ThrashMantid119@hotmail.com

10/15/04 Master Curt...
San Diego...MALE DOM My level of experience is: EXPERIENCED I am seeking: FEMAL SUB/SLAVE, 45+ My main interests: Seeking a mature femal sub/slave 45+ for spanking, bondage and discipline when necessary to include NT breast bondage. I will control you with the sound of my voice or a glance in your direction. There will be no scat, blood, children, swapping or trading. You will be mine and mine alone to do with as I see fit and desire. Contact me at my direct email address ... Curt. mstrcrt@hotmail.com

10/3/04 Angel...
San Diego...Submissive  My level of experience is: Novice  I am seeking: Male and Female  My main interests: Strapon and Dildo Training! The bigger the better, stretch me to the limit. Age race weight unimportant. Just have a good heart! warwiz2002@yahoo.com

09/23/04 Newbie_Dom_Bill...
Riverside, CA (near Los Angeles)...56 year-old Male Dom  My level of experience is: novice  I am seeking: Female submissives 18-80  My main interests: I'm a single straight 56-year-old Dominant Scottish/Welsh Aries guy seeking a serious long-term Dominance/submission relationship with a submissive woman who loves giving fellatio (oral sex on the Male Penis).  In the non-sexual arena, I am extremely artistically inclined, having been a wanna-be film director since 1973, and a wanna-be composer since 1986.  Lacking access to music compositional facilities, I was forced to narrow my focus down to pre-compositional theory/analysis, and have made several important conceptual breakthroughs in that area.  My spiritual path is Ancient Teachings of the Masters, whose spiritual leader is Sri Darwin Gross, of Oak Grove, OR, USA.  I have a 2-year-old Pic over at:  http://profiles.yahoo.com/bill_flavell My external e-mail address is newbie_dom_bill@mail.com

09/23/04 Dominant One...
Riverside CA...40, Male, Dom  My level of experience is: Experienced  I am seeking: Females 23 To 43  My main interests: Pure Dominant Male, No switch, Seeking sub female worthy of bondage, spankings, rape play, hair pulling, slavery, and adventures in public. straight or bi, any race, must not be fat, level of experience unimportant just a strong need to please your master. I am 6'3" white, athletic, professional male who understands that even though you may be a strong woman in public life, or even in married life, your wrists still burn to be tied, and your ass begs to be smacked. cfanfred@yahoo.com

7/26/04 Zeditel...
San Fernando Valley...48, Male, Dom  My level of experience is: medium  I am seeking: 39 - 49  My main interests: Role play, bondage, abdcution play, light SM. No blood, permanent damage, permanent marking or scat play. I'm 5'10", athletic and professional. I'm the clean cut guy next door who happens to live bondage and role play. zeedot@yahoo.com

07/17/04 sweetsummissive...
folsom ca...44 male submissive  My level of experience is: medium to experienced  I am seeking: mistress or master  My main interests: into being slave, bound, whipped , tortured humilaited, serving, pleasing toys, and what ever my master or mistress wants. i have very few limits its up to my mistress or master. want to meet the real thing no fakes. dburr1@sbcglobal.net

06/13/04 Master_Von...
Los Angeles...43, Male Dominate of F's, Couples, Moms and Daughters  My level of experience is: Very Experienced  I am seeking: Looking for F's, Couples, Mom and Daughters.  My main interests: I am into a TPE (Total Power Exchange) and control my submissives via Humiliation, Degregation and disipline. I have scened with and owned many different submissive's over the years. If your just interested or looking for more of your past experiences. There write to me. Domforyoutoday@yahoo.com

06/13/04 Master Craig...
Southern California...39 Make Single Dom  My level of experience is: very experienced  I am seeking: female early twenties to late thirties  My main interests: Offering my mentorship, and guidance leading to a real time relationship where you can actually live the life of a slave without the need to work outside the home, nor ever again to have to answer to a boss other than me.  You should 'know' (maybe "forewarned" is a better term:-), that I am strict but caring. I don't play games, and won't let you get away with any either. My proven training will cause you to wake up each and every morning knowing you are safe, secure, (sometimes SECURED), and always under the care of a real Master you can serve proudly. You should probably also know I am the type of Man who can command with look. I have the ability to melt you into submission with a touch, and the power to command without needing to be abusive.  If you are looking to be TOTALLY owned, and can relocate to Southern California, I will provide for all your needs, and even provide the any training you will need. I am single, attractive, healthy, drug and disease free, and you must be too. I am looking for the best, and willing to work with you to get there. mastery1@hotmail.com

05/26/04 hypno slave...
San Fernando Valley...39 yrs, swm submissive  My level of experience is: expierenced  I am seeking: Female Hypno Domme 30-44yrs  My main interests: I yearn to feel the control of a dominate woman washing over my mind and body as she slips me into a deep, deep submissive trance, soon I am deeply hypnotized and under your complete control, my only desire...to serve and obey!  I am handsome, passive and very compliant 39yrs profession swm in search of a Hypno Domme for LTR. I have rugged good looks, stand 5'8, athletic build, drk hair/grn eyes. I currently reside in Northridge (San Fernando Valley) and work for a major health insurance provider configuring hospital/ancillary contracts.  I am looking to meet a dominate woman who uses hypnosis and mind control techniques to enslave, train and control her male sub. I am ready to submit completely to your will, to be hyponotized repeatedly and conditioned to go under when ever you desire me too, in public as well as behind closed doors.  My other interests are Serious bondage, gags, lifestyle D/s, fetishes, exhibitionism, spankings, mild SM, control, training, sensation play, sensory deprivation, private humiliation, system of rewards and punishments, public and private D/s play, mild smothering. labeach_guy818@yahoo.com

05/15/04 Murphy...
San Diego, CA...54, Male, switch  My level of experience is: Novice  I am seeking: F 35-55  My main interests: Interested in a local woman who will wear pantyhose, a very tight girdle, and heels with whatever else she may be wearing. I'm interested in tying her (gag and blindfold possible),and teasing her until she is wild with desire, but has no outlet for orgasm (for quite a while). She may be required to hold her pee for quite a while. Also interested in possible role reversal, but not required. murphysd2004@yahoo.com

04/24/04 Eric...
Costa Mesa, California...45, Male, Dom  My level of experience is: Experienced  I am seeking: Female. 18 to 29  My main interests: First, let me tell you about myself. I am 45 years old.. I am truthful & honest. and trustworthy, and MESA.`I am self- employed. I travel around giving presentations. I Enjoy meeting other people. Very social and open minded.  I don t like being single. I need to find a partner in life. It would be nice to find someone, like you, to share my life with. First, let me explain about myself. I am real, and I am looking for people to be friend with and to get to know. Second, when you read my email & profile please keep an open mind. I prefer to date people who are not disabled. Why? you might ask. Because I do want another person who is disabled. I have to be honest with you. I have to admit that I am in a chair, and have cerebral palsy (which is not a disease. I am normal, but I do have some physical challenges. Let me reassure you; I am like any other man. I am DD FREE. Just because I am in a wheelchair and have cerebral palsy does not mean that I cannot have a normal life Feel free to ask me anything. I prefer to date people who are not disabled. Why? you might ask. Because I do want another person who is disabled. I think you are a very pretty. I would like to meet you some day. The place where I usually meet people is Totally Coffee on Mesa Verde East in Costa Mesa. I am looking for an Asian lady who is loyal & obedient. I want a person who can cook, clean, & take good directions. eric@a2ndlook.com

04/24/04 submissiveCouple...
Southern California USA...subF 25 sub M 40 both pure Slaves  level of experience: F nu but natural M's MOM 7 Late WIFE where Both Pro-DOM'S  seeking ALPHA WOMAN or Both DOM Bi-Couple. LifeLong SubmissiveCouple seeks pure TPE Collared endentured slavery to a True-Natural-Sadistic-Dominant-Alpha-GODDESS manifesting in the Flesh of a type "A" WOMAN DOM-COUPLES CONSIDERED where both are DOM BothBi-DOM COUPLES Welcome We seek a Bi-sexual DOMINANT or enlightened SwitchWOMAN (( Wishful thinking))-->We prefere a Pro-DOM who has a WebSite and LiveDungeon feed sessions to train Us in for posterities sake sub-Females are OK as friends-lovers and to join Us as possible stable slaves to Our new Unfound MISTRESS (((ALL Races Welcome))) We are whiteGirlSlut & whiteSlaveBoy to BLACK DOMS and understand this special dinamic))) ----->please NO 100% Gay Woman please <---------->NO Single Dom Males EVER  submissive_couple2000@yahoo

04/22/04 Mr. A.G.W...
Downey, California...56 year old Male Dom  My level of experience is: Novice  I am seeking: Female, 18-?  My main interests: I am seeking a deeply submissive single, unattached girl, white or Asian preferred, for a loving, monogamous long term relationship, but without the trappings of marriage or the inconveniences of cohabitation. You must be feminine, attractive, quiet, gentle, docile, and obedient with an inborn awareness that pleasing your man is what pleases you. A good personality is nice, but good character is essential.  No smokers, drug users, heavy drinkers. No BBWs. Also no men, TVs, TSs. As you will be devoting time to me, you should have no children, pets, or other dependents who require constant attention. Since you will be submissive in all facets of this relationship, you should not be a switch. I'm more interested in the psychological aspects of domination and submission than in the physical aspects of bondage and discipline, however I have an open mind for your needs in this area (if any). These are things we'll have to discuss in depth. Obviously a relationship like this is going to take time to build.  For my part, I offer myself as constant friend, lover, partner to share joys, shoulder to cry on, as well as what must be any truly submissive girl's heart's desire: a man who will fulfill your need to be completely sexually subservient and who will honor you and cherish you as the rare treasure you are.  I am single, 5'8", 134 pounds, Caucasian, gentle, affectionate, and sincere. I have no children. I don't smoke, drink, or take drugs. I am not into the BDSM scene and I am not looking for play partners. I am looking for one girl for one relationship.  If you are warmed by my ideas, email me and describe yourself: age, height, weight, etc., and tell me the city you live in (very important--you must be convenient to my location). You may also want to express some of your relationship desires, but keep it polite; email is not private. We will talk on the phone or exchange mailing addresses for confidential communication and subsequently I will outline the details of the unique relationship we will build under my direction. ss2ta@earthlink.net

03/21/04 Mistress Dawn...
Graeagle, CA...36, female, Domme. My level of experience is: experienced  I am seeking: male, 25 - 60  My main interests: Looking for a 24/7 sub/slave for domestic services and serviceing me when I desire.  When in the home will be naked, collared and chastity belted. May be told to work outside of home to help pay for enternment. Must be able to hold a conversation, give an opinion when asked and, have a sense of humor. I'm a strict but fair Mistress. For more infomation, please feel free to write me. bravedawn@yahoo.com

02/12/04 softestheart...
california 805 area code...49, female submissive  My level of experience is: novice/medium  I am seeking: M 45+  My main interests: Thank you for your interest. I'm a warm lovable, huggable, soft BBW submissive/slave who can on occasion think and blink at the same time. I'm looking for a Long term D/s relationship with honest, intelligent, strict loving Master who thrives on the challenges of Erotic Power Exchange. I hope to find someone who has an interest in teaching a willing, sweet, shy, loving submissive/slave to be all that he desires behind closed doors.  I live in California, I'm in my late forties, a natural redhead who loves to smile and laugh. I'm rather shy, open minded, spirited, overly sensitive, and have a great sense of humor. My softness isn't limited only to my body, it's also part of my personality. Even though I'm sweet, gentle and loving, I'm mentally very strong. I seek an intelligent Master who has the desire take control of my mind, allowing me to surrender to him totally. Complete surrender and pleasing my Master is what brings me the greatest happiness. I long to submit lovingly and passionately, giving my mind, body and soul to him.  I'm seeking a Master that truly enjoys being with a large soft woman and shares the same goals for their life as I do. My goals include meeting the person who will eventually, over time will hopefully become my life partner and Master. He is someone who desires an intense one on one relationship wanting to enjoy life together in the mist of a full circle, beautiful, loving, and passionate D/s relationship.  In addition to a Master, I seek a soul mate, best friend and confidant. This would be someone who has the time and desire to have a multifaceted relationship that consists of vanilla things in public as well as D/s things in private. If you are seeking afternoon sessions, a play partner or sex with no emotional involvement, I simply and honestly would not be the person for you. The Master I seek...  My soul mate Master is an intelligent person interested in the world around him. He would be a real time non-smoking Master over the age of 45. A man who wants to take complete mental control in the bedroom, yet wants more than just a BDSM relationship. He is someone who is seeking an eventual life partner as well as submissive/slave. He has a great sense of humor, is patient and kind as well as strict, confident in himself, as well as mentally and emotionally strong. Because I'm 100% submissive I ask that he be 100% Master and not a switch.  Please be someone who sincerely enjoys being with a large, soft, sensual woman of substance. Honesty and the desire for communication is essential for our relationship to thrive. I'm serious in my search for the one who will own and control me. With respect I ask that you please not ask me for information that you aren't willing to provide in return. If you feel we might be looking for the same things, please write and I will be happy to respond, as well as trade photos upon request. softestheart4u@yahoo.com

02/12/04 Cognito69...
Near Chico, CA... I Prefer to be Submissive but can switch  My level of experience is: Medium  I am seeking: Female--Mistress-Dominant.  My main interests: I love to please a woman in any and every way she wants. I love to be a slave andd care for her needs. Sexually I want to make her enjoy her body orally and climax many times so I can enjoy tasting her cum.
Shortcrct@hotmail.com

02/12/04 Toiletmouth...
Los Angeles, California...59 y/o, male submissive  My level of experience is: medium  I am seeking: Dominant females 18-50  My main interests: Serving females as their personal toilet slave. Also for heavy, prolonged facesitting/smothering by dominant women. 59 very submissive white male toilet slave seeks dominant females to serve as your personal full-service toilet. No female refused this most personal "service". To be able to serve GROUPS of females as your group "party toilet" would be a big plus. I also have a strong masochistic craving for intense, heavy, prolonged "facesitting/smothering" ("Queening"), to have women sit down on my face and take cruel delight in using it as their personal "sitting pillow" or "seat cushion" for your full shapely ass's sitting pleasures, mercilessly smothering my trapped, helpless face beneath your fully and heavily seated asses. My face can also serve GROUPS of females as your group "party throne" for your lengthy smothering, forced oral anal worship. The female asshole is my holy altar at which I long to worship and serve. Please. please "use" me! davabil@sbcglobal.net

12/18/03 mwchesubbi...
California...44/43, f/m cpl, she str8 sub for BLACK MEN, he sub bi cd slave. she novice, he very experienced. We are seeking: DOM BLACK MEN, BM/wf cpls, wc's, any age  Our main interests: We love for BLACK MEN to take his place as the man, and make her his slut, and make him slave. Also for BM/wf cpls, and wc's. He has served several masters/mistress over the last 25yrs. He has no limitations if it means serving and pleasing. Use, abuse, hurt and humiliate him in the most extreme kinky ways possible. goodbi69@yahoo.com

12/02/03 Existential Perv...
San Francisco...Late 40's, Male, Dom, Experienced 30 years, seeks Female 30's - 50's. A few things up front which are extremely important to me...  Honesty – Loyalty – Trust - An open mind – Passion - Intensity  I am looking for that rarest of individuals, a true slave. But everyone has their own definitions... mine is of a woman who is my slave, my partner, my muse and ultimately my love. She is a complex woman. She is equal parts erotically evil and romantically traditional. She is a woman who inspires me. She is a woman who would spend her life in a dance of mutual seduction with me.  I have been in the bdsm culture for many years and enjoyed some wonderful relationships. This is my life and although I grow and change and explore many new directions, the D/s core is as much a part of me as the air I breathe.  I am looking for an extremely deep D/s relationship, not just dungeon time (the dungeon time is the bonus, not the foundation). Without a core of deep commitment, and the expectation of a future together, the exploration of my deviant passions means nothing more than titillation – fun but it gets old fast. It is the relationship that I find most rewarding. It is two lives evolving a shared perverse vision of the universe with the will to search out a unique and deviant path within it.  If you think you need (very important word NEED) this kind of life, then I am interested. Experience is not absolutely necessary but is strongly preferred. If you think you know everything about being a slave, then we are probably NOT the best match. The best slave will open herself for imprinting, succumb to the lead, and facilitate her training with an open mind and humility. Slaves are not interchangeable. A slave is a unique individual. Her training should not be books and formulas devised by others.  existential_perv@yahoo.com

09/22/03 Gilby...
los angeles...Age, 48.  My level of experience is: novice  I am seeking: female dom 40 - 50  My main interests: I am very atentive and enjoy serving a firm Dom who will guide me with verbal ques some humiliation amd light discipline. I am an attractive executive seeking some light training from a non-pro Domm. gilfish11@yahoo.com

07/22/03 Sissy Kendra...
Anaheim Ca...57, male, vary submissive  My level of experience is: medium  I am seeking: Female 45-57  My main interests: To be a full time 24/7 Sissy Slave Maid, and to be used as mistress wishes. For right willing to become total sissy and eventually do away with all male clothes. kfy77777@hotmail.com

06/09/03 master_penfield...
Garden Grove, CA...60, Male Dominant  My level of experience is: Very Experienced  I am seeking: Female - Age 23 to 45  My main interests: Bondage, collars, wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, blindfolds, sensory deprivation, breast binding, nipple torture, geni-torture, gyno-medical, female sexual servitude, etc. Are you a true slave girl?  I am searching for a female slave that wants and needs to be nurtured and guided to her pinicle of fulfillment by an older, mature, experienced Master. Beyond that, she will know with little doubt that she possesses the psychological mindset of full submissiveness and the required level of masochism to serve a demanding and sadistic master. The previous sentence in not meant to exlude or disuade a novice candidate from responding if there is little doubt in her mind that she is committed to the validity of knowing her innermost primal self.  Your emotional and psychological charisteristices will be as follows: Submissive by nature, shy, modest, and yet highly sexual and erotic. You will have the natural mindset of a slave girl rather than that of a sassy submissive that senses there may be a bit of glamour associated with this lifestyle. You will be dedicated to obedience and expect to be physically and emotionally punished for disobedience or hesitation to comply with a command. Your innermost gratification will be certered around sexual service and enduring torture as a medium toward attaining your ultimate pleasure.  Physically, you will be in good health, drug and disease free with the exception of tobacco use. I prefer petite to average females that are height and weight proportioned but do not let that deter you from responding.  Your circumstances will be, single, divorced or married in a'vanilla' relationship that leaves you unfulfilled. You will live in Southern California. Ideally, you will be able to meet for encounters on weekday mornings or all day Saturdays until we see how the chemistry is between us.  Your proclities will lean towards an increasing degree of enjoyment in feeling fear, embarrassment, and humiliation when being depirved of physical or emotional privacy when submitting to punishment or torture. Your proclivities will also include submission to breast and nipple torture, geni-torture, geni-flogging, clit and labia clamping, gyno-medical examinations including enemas, vaginal and anal insertions, whippings etc. You will also be expected to submit to oral, vaginal and anal sex.  My personality is dominant, self-assured, confident, emotionally sensitive, outgoing, and affectionate, spiritual and yet, lascivous and salacious and erotic. I am well educated and articulate.. Physically, I am six feet tall, weigh 160 lbs. and in my early sixties. I am physically fit, drug and disease free. Sexually, I am normally endowed and fully functional despite my age.  If you decide to respond you may do so directly to: master_penfield@yahoo.com Please, no one line responses such as 'tell me more'. I will be happy to tell you more and send a picture if you respond with details about yourself and articulate your needs to me...  Master Fred

05/10/03 chaz...
oxnard, california...24/M/submissive  My level of experience is: novice  I am seeking: 18-35 dominant female  My main interests: looking for an experienced dominant female to use me for her amusement, entertainment and pleasure, I am willing to do or try anything, really interested in heavy bondage, CBT, latex/leather, flogging, etc. fwskin@yahoo.com

02/02/03 somdguy2003...
California, MD...43, male, dominant, with some experience, seeks 19-45 Female. My interest is Bondage (restrictive, but neither cruel nor painful). Interested in women who LOVE being tightly tied and gagged, OR who think they might be. rsmalt@earthlink.net

01/24/03 kAVA...
CAL...MALE DOM, EXPERIENCED, seeks F 25-40. lOOKING FOR A WILLING SLAVE WHO IS SLIM AND TALKES GREAT CARED OF HERSELF. nATURAL BOOBS PLEASE. cOMPLETELY OPEN AND WILLING TO BE A TRUE SUBMISSIVE WHO ONLY GETS REAL PLEASURE SERVING  PROMISE YOU FUN, GOOD INTELLECT AND MANNERS AND VERY REWARDING EXPERIENCE. TINIKAVA@EARTHLINK.NET

01/20/03 Mastery1...
Los Angeles...38 Male Dom, Experienced, seeks Female 24-38. I am interested in a real time serious, loving and strict D/s relationship with ALL the extras. Educated professional who lives a healthy and well-balnced life that includes the need to share love, trust and raw power of a Dominance and Submission (D/s) lifestyle. What I desire is a woman who wants MORE out of life than mere existence, a woman who craves the power of a strong man, who enjoys bringing joy and to the one she serves, and who wants a monogamous and loving relationship. What I'm NOT seeking is a robot, fantasy slave, cyberslave or ANYONE who is uncertain about wanting a quality "real time" relationship, of which D/s is a crucial part. trainr@hotmail.com

01/20/03 fetishslave...
california...submissive with some experience seeks female 25-40. I like to be told what to do. lastat6@excite.com

01/14/03 Frank...
Concord, CA...57 y/o male, switch, novice, seeks Female 21-60. My interests are Role playing enemas and/or strapon dildos. Seeking ladies in the S.F.Bay area interested in giving and/or receiving hot, soapy enemas. Also interested in strapon dildo play, however I'm new to this. a911guy2002@yahoo.com

12/27/02 jeff...
los angeles ca...50 male dom with some experience seeks male or females 18+. I am interested in all aspects of bdsm. looking for white males who are looking for black female slaves. Must be willing to travel. Serious only. s-trader@excite.com

12/27/02 Al...
San Bernardino, CA...40, M, sub, novice, seeks Female - 25-50. I'm F2M transgendered - still F down below for the most part.  The rest is all M and pretty good looking. I'm interested in being spanked, tied up, anal play, clit torture.  I would love to put on a strap-on and pleasure you. roughhouse10@aol.com

12/26/02 Darla...
Bay Area, California... 41, Female (TS), submissive, experienced, seeks Masters, Mistresses and Dominant Couples. With respect to D/s: i enjoy mild to SERIOUS bondage, ongoing/daily D/s activities, exhibitionism, private humiliation, going to B&D events and clubs, spankings, sensation play (mild to moderate, nothing too heavy), role play, age play, mild breath play and of course i am bisexual. i also enjoy these fetishes: sexy dress, leather, lingerie, latex, catsuits, high heels and boots. i am NOT into blood play, piss or poop, anything unhealthy or disgusting or illegal, needles, heavy pain, degradation, public humiliation, any form of abuse. Even though i am pre-op TS and planning to remain so, i am also NOT interested in penetrating men sexually.. i'm way too feminine and submissive for that kind of thing. That is why i mostly date heterosexual men, bisexual Couples and lesbian women. Even though i am very selective, i respond to Everyone that writes. i am very sexy, sweet and honest and a professional model. i am NOT interested in married or committed Men that want to cheat on Their wives or girlfriends. i prefer Partners and Lovers that are non-smokers or at least very light smokers. darlabond@aol.com

11/29/02 SFDOMWM...
San Francisco bay area...51, male, Dom, very experienced, seeks female, 30-60. My interests are Bondage, teasing, spanking, whipping caning, anal play, nipple torture......I am looking to develop an ongoing, mostly daytime relationship with a sane and mature female sub/bottom for safe, sane, consensual, erotic and intense D/s bdsm, in the San Francisco bay area. I am a mwm, 50, handsome, trim, experienced, sane, even tempered and a descent human being. I am in a some what open marriage, more don't ask, don't tell, but still keep things on the discreet side. If you are a sub/bottom who needs to be degraded then I am not for you, I am neither cruel or abusive. I am a loving Dom/Top who is there with you all the way. Not into cyber. sfdomwm@mailcity.com

10/27/02 Bad Brad...
San Diego...39, Male, Switch, experienced, seeks Female, all ages. My interests are Roleplay, Domestic Discipline, Ageplay, Fun. Dance with me into the night, where everything we do is right, and no one judges what we do, in our own world, just me and you. lovethrills@yahoo.com

10/18/02 Ms Dee...
Huntington Beach...46/gay female, novice, seeks gay woman 40-52, someone to serve me, worship me. looking for that special white or hispanic femminine woman for a committed relationship. bussibee@yahoo.com

09/30/02 mr. kel...
orange county, ca...40 male very submissive, experienced, seeks women, 25 to 55. my interests are training as a french maid house slave. extended and complicated humilation games. very interested in finding a mistress who can push my limits to the edge. KellyHWriter@aol.com

09/26/02 WhoreMaster...
Pacific...32, Male Domme, seeks female, any age. Interest in training slaves via cyber-no need for real life contact. Into the taboo...training involving humiliation, degradation, mind control and exploring topics such as K9, and prostitution. Looking for attractive,open minded and submissive females who have a digital camera and are prepared to send photographs. This is cyber only and you must therefore be committed to performing required activities.The fewer the limits the better.Discretion is assured with the provision of photographs.whoremaster@darksites.com

09/05/02 Mistress Colleen...
Orange County CA...33 Dominant, Very Experienced, seeks males 21-35. I love to roll play and enjoy most all aspects of Domination. I enjoy the seducing aspect best...I am seeking a single LOCAL to ME, very attractive intelligent white submissive male 21-35yrs old for fun times. ORANGE COUNTY AREA ONLY please send e-mail a photo of you with a bio. mistress@mistresscolleen.com

08/01/02 smpet...
San Diego, CA...55, submissive male, experienced, seeks Female, 18 to 80. My interests are CBT, elect, wax, spanking, flogging, crops, gs, bs, oral service, body worship and much more. DDF, very athletic, very oral, discreet. smpet2@aol.com

07/30/02 Jim...
Redondo Beach, Ca...Older Dom with some experience seeks Female only. My interest is showing beginning Submissives how it feels to be in complete and different bondage set-ups. There will be no sexual intercourse ( no STDs nor Aids ) but sexual things will be done to you as a result of being made helpless in bonds. I own my home, so we are not talking about a motel room session and I am completely trustworthy and possess all the "toys" that D&S needs. You will not be harrassed, stalked nor molested - outside of the scene :-)) You will know my name, address, phone number and I will know only your nick. I am retired, so my hours and days are open. In a safe environment, with a caring man and with many "toys" to please you, what more could a curious maybe wannabe ask ? Photo on request. Jim joker678@hotmail.com

07/01/02 slave janet...
Sacramento, CA...48yo slavegirl wannabee with some experience seeks Female supremecist, 21+. my interest is to be owned by a very dominant woman who will make me Her slave girl. To worship, to serve, to be a slavegirl, what greater ambition can one have??? slavejanet69@cs.com

07/01/02 Mistress Dee...
orange County California...46 female Lesbian Domme, novice, seeks single lesbian femme females 39 to 52. I want a female to serve and give me sexual pleasure. I want a monagamous relationship with a white or hispanic femme lesbian that loves to please. No water sports, branding no scat no knife play I do not like anal done on me I do not drink. smoke or do drugs. I will cherish my sub and respect your limits. bussibee@yahoo.com

06/20/02 dogmeat...
california...40, male, submissive with some experience seeks female, 40-70. i am drawn to be trained and owned by a powerful Mistress. humiliation is my tool for submission. it helps me to understand who i am as either a sub or a slave to my Mistress/Owner. i crave Mistresses with body hair. i am partial to being shaved. dogmeat29@hotmail.com

05/29/02 Darla Bond...
San Francisco, California...40, Female, submissive, very experienced, seeks Men, Women, Couples, 28-50. My interests are Serious bondage, gags, lifestyle D/s, fetishes, exhibitionism, spankings, mild SM, control, training, safe sex, sensation play, sensory deprivation, private humiliation, system of rewards and punishments, public and private D/s play, sexy dress, high heels and boots, latex, leather, mild smothering. i am an experienced submissive that left her Master 18 months ago. i am seeking a long term relationship with a Dom Individual or Dom Couple. i am a VERY ATTRACTIVE pre-op transsexual, currently a professional model and a former bondage and fetish model. Great photo available to all serious replies. Couples seeking a live-in should definitely write. Relocation is possible for the right situation. i am NOT interested in casual sex or anything unhealthy, illegal or unsafe. i am a very sweet person with a LOT to offer. If You do not know how to be strict and yet loving, i am not right for You. Men should be 5'9" or taller. i prefer non-smokers (i do not smoke). darlabond@aol.com

05/07/02 dana...
San Diego...43, male sub with some experience seeks Female any age. i enjoy serving the needs of a dominant women, i enoy suffering for her pleasure, performing domestic duties, forced femm, basically anything too please my Mistress. i have no preconceptions or expectations only a desire to serve. dana1148s@yahoo.com

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