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This first ad is a very special submission, and we at BdsmRealities are proud to learn that someone found someone through our ads so special that collaring and marriage followed. If you are a male sub please read this ad first before you look at the ads from your state:
07/05/03 Goddess Matchmaker...
51, female, Domme - but this is about my Lady Friend. She is looking for a masculine male, age 40-55.
I personally was found right here in this site by my one-and-only, slave greg. He was collared in April and we married immediately afterward. This is a great site and I hope we can find someone just as nice for my best Lady Domme friend.
My dear, dear, mildly dominant female friend in Ohio (currently only) is requiring some of my expert assistance in finding and relocating to her "one and only" potential subbie hubbie. Call me selfish, but now that I ve found my one-and-only slave greg, I can concentrate on making sure my Lady friend has hers and that she and I have great subbie stories to tell each other! Please, if you don't meet the requirements, it is wasting my time and yours to respond.YOU must be a very, very special man. You are 40-55, at least average-looking, at least 5'10" in height, and have a full head of your own hair. You are divorced, single, or a widower with no children. Married, married but looking, and separated individuals need not apply. You have a comfortable source of income, one that will allow you to stay home at times and be her loyal, loving caregiver. You not only love to stay home, but you also like to watch science fiction, and might even be a wonderful cook. You also love to travel, and are able to take her to tropical places occasionally. If you are ready to or are already retired, so much the better. She's not a sex maniac, but she must have romance, love, and cuddling. If actual sex is not as critical as companionship, caring, and loyalty, then you and she are on the same page. You must have an ENORMOUS "caregiver gene". You would ideally live within a short distance of a coast. Her heart is aching for the ocean and a new start, and hopefully, with this kind of move, her health issues will no doubt lessen. [She could live next to a large, CLEAN lake, but would prefer the ocean.] You must be a true animal lover, and not just any animal. She is allergic to cats, but has two wonderful pot-bellied piggies and one small older canine, all of which would need to be accommodated. These are keeping her going and they are "part of the package". This means an existing home on a decent patch of land is almost a given. You must be financially able to travel to Ohio and whisk her away, relocating her, given the right chemistry . She is tired of the cold weather/water, so ideally you would live further south than that latitude. Please no swamp land or bug-ridden areas, like Louisiana. [Only Americans need apply!]
She is a BBW, but not a super-sized BBW. She has some health issues that, while not terminal, or contagious, can require that you REALLY be the "wind beneath her wings" at times. She is super intelligent, very computer literate, has a medical background, and at this point is receiving SS Disability. You love a great Lady to be in charge, but you aren't necessarily a "slave". You are a submissive but not necessarily a masochist. My Lady Friend LOVES to spank at her whim and for correction, so you expect that activity. You are all man, don t desire feminization in any way, and have no desire to wear the "pantyhose" in the family. You have at least graduated from college and can converse on an intelligent level. You have a wry, sometimes silly sense of humor, although not everyone knows about it. You might be a smoker, BUT she may WANT TO QUIT HERSELF AND SO A NON-SMOKER IS JUST FINE! You either don't drink at all or only barely socially. She won't share a husband with a drugs or a bottle. Ah yes, you can't be allergic to the "m" word. Living together is fine for some, but she s old-fashioned in that if she finds her wonderful, masculine, submissive-behind-closed-doors, gentleman, he will agree with her to "make it legal", "make it lovely", and make the honeymoon on a tropical island!.
This is a very serious posting and there are reasons why I'm doing it for her by proxy. If you are interested, send a facial picture and an e-letter of interest to blondegoddessbbw@yahoo.com and put on the subject line: Lovely friend posting. I will forward the best candidates to her. Now that I have found my "chosen one", I can be infinitely more happy by hearing that I no longer have to worry about her and we can share stories of our wonderful husbands. [And if you were to happen to live near one of the big lakes here in New Mexico, I d get to see my dear friend!!] blondegoddessbbw@yahoo.com
12/2/07 Yorick...
Arkansas... Male 25 Switch Experience: novice Seeking: Female 21-30 Interests: I am fairly new to this and I'm looking for someone to experiment with. Dom or Sub, doesn't matter. I'm just looking for a nice girl to have fun with. yorick123@hushmail.com3/11/06 baker0384...
Rogers Arkansas USA... her Dom 36 him Dom 48. Our level of experience is: 2 years. We are seeking: Female (18-35) Our main interests: couple looking for submissive female to get to know . Later hopefully want 24/7 if all works out. If you are female submissive aome and lets talk might be good only one way to find out. hope to hear from you. baker0384@sbcglobal.net5/22/08 NathanLV...
Wilmington, Delaware USA... 38, Male, Dominant Experience: Very Experienced Seeking: Female Submissive and or slave 25-50 Interests: TITLE: Cute Dom Looking For A New Female Playmate (23-50) PROFILE: White, male, 37, living in Wilmington, DE travels to NJ,DE, MD and VA for business and pleasure. I've been in the scene for a number of years now and really like all that it has to offer. I started out in the Northern New Jersey. I met up with a lifestyle couple that later went on to publish "Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns" by Molly Devon and Philip Miller. My nickname appears in the credits of their book. I have been in various roles over the years in real life from Trainer to Dominant and over the past 5 years have become a Mentor. I have lived in Phoenix, Vegas, Milwaukee, Orlando and Chicago prior to moving to Wilmington,DE to spend some time with my father who has cancer. I worked in the adult movie industry as making BDSM videos in Vegas. Shortly thereafter I landed a job working for Disney on a college internship. My travels take me to Phoenix & Vegas on business for two weeks every year. Sirdsrail@yahoo.com9/25/06 Harry211...
USA Wilmington Delaware... 49,Male,Submissive My level of experience is: Medium I am seeking: Seeking Female and couple My main interests: PLEASE TRAIN ME Im a divorced submissive white male from Wilmington De.Im 5/7,blonde hair,brown eyes,stocky built,very clean and clean cut.Have no children,Employed.Have home in the city. Im seeking a Dom Mistress or Dom Couple to serve as there bondage domestic slave and sex slave.To serve weekends as there live/in slave.Be put into bondage 24/7 as I serve them.Body worship,Dildo training,B/D,Feminzation,Maid service,ect.I have been a slave before but it been a long time. So I am for real and want to be collarded,cuffed,and leached 24/7. I know I have no say in mt training you have owenership of me. harry211@comcast.net02/12/03 buck_naked38...
Boise...38. My level of experience is: novive. I am seeking: female. I am looking for a domina who will take control and train me to be her servant. I am have been interested in this for a long time but only recently have started pursuing it in earnest. I am 6 ft, blue eyees, blond hair, 195 lbs and professional. buck_naked38@yahoo.com07/9/01 RIKKER...
southeastern Idaho...50 y/o Male Dom with 24 years experience seeks female 18-40. My interests are bondage, depilitation,piercing (play and permanent, shackle, suspension (chain and asian), insertion, oral, anal, electro, flails, floggers, crops, canes, whips, enemas, breast/nipple bondage, intricate rope work, mild humilation, et al. I am a member of "Choices of Idaho" a private bdsm educational club and play space. I have trained almost a hundred women in my time. Some where 24/7 slaves, some where occasional session only. I am a caring and compassionate and empathetic DOM. I will do all in my power to make your submission to me the most satifying experience in your life. RIKKERTG@yahoo.com09/13/02 LoveslaveBB...
Wichita, Kansas... 43, Male, Submissive with some experience seeks F - 22 through 45. My experience level includes: CBT, Watersports, anal, bondage, pussy worship, shoe worship and anal worship. However, I would like to try many of the other submissive things. I would love to have a domme, order me to suck another slaves cock! I'm a WPM, that keeps his slutty bod in shape, 5'10" workout 5 days a week, 31" waist and SHAVED BALLS for U to torture. I travel the state of Kansas with my job and spend some time in the KC area. mousehunter67208@yahoo.com3/19/08 robertc44...
Maine, USA... 56, M, Dom Experience: medium Seeking: F, 25-45 Interests: I am a writer, 56, youthful look, 5'9" or 5'10" depending on your eye level and generosity, slender, blue eyes, dark hair, partly balding; seeking a bright, sensitive woman, strong-minded in character and perhaps career, but with a submissive side, for intense but harmless, sensual and consensual roleplay. Diversified portfolio of *imaginary* torments (kidnapping, asphyxia, humiliation, stripping, bondage, gagging, hair-pulling, begging, and more); always with underlying respect, affection, consideration, and, not least, common sense. Am dominant; tho' can comfortably switch roles. As Shakespeare said (or was it de Sade?), 'The play's the thing.' In between exotic scenes and dreams, I enjoy shockingly vanilla pastimes (the usual urban suspects): restaurants, concerts, museums, bookstores, zoos (where the passersby are often the most interesting exhibits), and walks to clear my head or enjoy the confusion. Above all, I enjoy spending time with individuals I find warm, humorous, and imaginative in some. robertc44@earthlink.net04/07/03 sweet lil tasia...
maine...i am 35 and a submissive 11 yrs now, very experienced. I am seeking: both M-F 35-50. My main interests: well i love electric play, breast and nipple torture, bondage, hot wax, oral, hair pulling, spankings, whips, humiliation. i am 35 as i mention, i am also paralyzed from waist down, but i do very very well. tasia6@hotmail.com12/12/01 Lucky...
Polson, Montana USA... On the Flathead Indian Reservation NW corner of the State of Montana. 52yrs old, submissive male can be a switch, 2 year into bdsm, seeks 30-60s either male or female. I am interested in being dominated by female and use of strap-on used as well as being spanked, whipped, dildoe training, as fisting too. I am seeking either a Mistress (preferrably) or a Master that will teach this male how to be submissive to their needs. Hopefully that can be patient with me as I learn. If not is not afraid to use dicipline too. LDonegan@centurytel.net1/30/06 boyslave2231...
Nebraska, United States... 18, Male, Slave My level of experience is: medium My main interests: being a complete slave, piercings, bondage, degradation, and beastility. i am willing to give myself up 100% mind and body to the right one. once gieven away, i have no human or animal rights left, i am a slave. boyslave2231@hotmail.com11/3/06 doug bradford...
durham, n.h. u.s.a... 71 male submissive My level of experience is: novice I am seeking: looking for female domme legal age My main interests: I AM LOOKING FOR A DOMME TO SERVE AS A HOUSEBOY/PERSONALS SUBMISSIVE. Am open to other venues if agreeable to both.I am 71 but feel and look much younger.Iwould be loyal and sincere.Will expect both physical and other punishments the domme will find neccessary. Also have a good sense of humor and am a good listener and chaperone if desired. duke513@verizon.net11/1/04 sissy the maid...
New Hampshire... 45 year old submissive My level of experience is: experienced I am seeking: female any age My main interests: Verrry submissive and trained TV sissy maid seeks an ownwer or owners...i am skilled in domestic duties as well as more "personal servics"if desired....i will serve you well...i'm into bd sm etc..can travel throught New England and New york city....hope to hear from you.... subsissymaid@yahoo.com7/24/06 Trainer81...
North Dakota of the USA... 26 year old Dom. My level of experience is: Experienced X I am seeking: Male Master looking to met other Masters My main interests: I work in the arts of a special type of slave training. Slave training for girls. It's called Subliminal thought programming. If you check out my site you will learn more. But if there are any questions please ask me. I am as of right now still seeking beta testers to help me in my product line. Though my product line is still new, I have spent 2 to 3 years of research and learning. One of my Subliminal thought CD's called submissive thoughts, has been proven to work! I am yet seeking a teen around 18 or 19 years of age. It, be for testing standards. trainer81@gtpals.com7/22/05 surferdom...
RI USA... 45 male dom My level of experience is: very experienced I am seeking: Female My main interests: Strict rope bondage. Roleplay. Lookiing for women 20-55 who want to be bound tightly, gagged and taken. surfertom007@yahoo.com03/29/05 bondage seeker...
Rhode Island... switch My level of experience is: experienced I am seeking: Females 30-50 My main interests: My main interest is to find a bondage partner who likes to tie and be tied-up. To play with and experience different Dominant/submissive scenarios. I doesn't matter if you are a Dominant or submissive but rather having an open mind to either side. Not looking for a long-term commitment but rather a female friend who enjoys bondage as much as I do. restingswan@yahoo.com3/9/07 Ron...
South Dakota... 58 Dom My level of experience is: medium I am seeking: F Age to 45 My main interests: Looking for Submissive F for sex SM B&D LTR to perminant partnership. Desire for B&D & light to mild SM sex A+. SLIM FIT A+ Breast size not importaint small is cool. Knight54368@hotmail.com07/15/04 mrsandman...
SD... 46, M, Dom My level of experience is: Master - 25 years I am seeking: Female, TS/TG, Lesbian/Gay, 25-65 My main interests: Come explore with me. Photographer, sculptor, looking for models and playmates. Wanting to start a group for serious BDSM artwork - and collectors. mrsandman57701@yahoo.com06/04/02 taylor...
Tennessee... 35 yr old, experienced female dominant interested in meeting submissive males age 32 - 45 yrs from any region and possibly relocate. I have been in the lifestyle for over 7 years. I have indulged in, but not limited to, the most mild, sensual domination and role-play to the severe corporal and heavy bondage. I have experience most everything, but refuse to practice in scat, animals, youths and cutting. I am quite an adventurer. I love to hike, camp, fish, excercise and travel. I love the mountain and the canyons of the west and travel there frequently in pursuit of my photography. At home I love to cook with my companion while enjoying a bottle of wine. I enjoy reading and teaching myself new things. I am learning Spanish and will move on to German when I am complete. For excercise I rollerblade, hike , bike, life weights, play tennis..... I am learning tae-bo, pilates and yoga. I am hoping to find someone that enjoys most of the things I have listed. You should be a non-smoker, drug and disease free AND NO COUCH POTATOES. I do not wish to engage in domination on a 24/7 basis. This should just be a addition or spice to our relationship. You should be educated and financially secure. I wish to swap photos. taylor107@hotmail.com05/07/02 luv2pleezu...
Mid-Tn, an hour west of Knoxville...43, M, sub, switch, novice, seeks F, Couples-FF, MF, TSs, any legal age, or race. I'm a very friendly, and nice looking MWM who's very interested in this lifestyle. I live in TN, an hour west of Knoxville. The alternative lifestyle is new to me; but I'm very open-minded, and wanting to explore. My wife would not be participating. She has physical handicaps limiting what we can do sexually. I'm seeking "friends" that are understanding of my situation, and willing to meet with me occassionally, when schedules allow, and to teach me new things, if you're experienced. I'm very open to, and WILL DO most anything to satisfy you however you like. Or we can learn from each other, if we want to try things, neither of us have as yet. I'll be glad to share what I do know with those less experienced than me. I'd enjoy being with ladies, M/F or F/F couples, TSs or groups. Any legal age, race, & sexual orientation is fine with me, and looks aren't an issue with me either. My goal is finding "friends" who, like me, are wanting good kinky sexual fun, and wanting to be sure that the experience is pleasurable for all who participate. I'm mainly looking to have experiences I can't get at home. I would prefer sexual activity to be involved; but understand that's not always the case with B&D. The following are some of my fantasies that I'm hoping to fulfill. I'd love to join a dominant lady, or group of ladies, and have them use me for their pleasure. I'd always respect your limits, and would like mine respected as well. Being dominant with submissive ladies would be fun too. I'd also love to join 2 or more bi-ladies, watching them pleasure each other. Meeting TSs alone, or with other ladies would also be awesome. I really want to join a group of men & women in an orgy sometime too. I'm mainly straight; but don't mind being bi, as long as there is female participation. I'd love to eat a pussy as its being fucked, and would enjoy cleaning all the juices off of the dick, as well. I can be contacted direct at cowdmahn@hotmail.com , if you'd like. I look forward to hearing from any wanting to meet soon.12/29/03 roissygrrl...
Washington, D.C...26, Female, Submissive My level of experience is: relatively experienced (9 years) I am seeking: Males ages 24 to 40 My main interests: It's not that I believe I belong on my knees, it's just that I feel so right there. I'm a 26-year-old submissive who has been active in the lifestyle for about nine years now. At times, Ds has been a big part of my daily life; at times, less so. It ebbs and flows. For the past few months, Ds has taken a back seat to some other things. But I find I miss serving, I miss being controlled and I miss being on my knees. I've been described as a very earnest submissive, and I think that's apt. That said, while Ds is always a part of my life, it's not all of my life. As much as I romantacize the notion of a 24/7 Ds relationship - and as much as I admire those that can achieve it - I know it's probably not for me. My career, for instance, wouldn't accommodate it. And, frankly, I'm probably not cut out for 24/7 power exchange. I'm headstrong (some might say stubborn), I'm smart. And oddly enough, I'm not eager to take a backseat to anyone for a prolonged period of time. Now, nearly a decade after I first started scening, I'm beginning to think at my core I'm just a bedroom bondage girl (though, to be sure, one who enjoys some public play among Ds-friendly folks and some involvement in the local BDSM scene). Nevertheless, when I'm serving I feel more myself. I move beyond myself when I'm scening, and I can grow when I'm being trained.
I'm looking for a friend, a companion and a sensual dominant - someone who knows that the pleasure truly comes as much from giving as from receiving (and for all involved). To me the mind truly is the biggest and most important sexual organ; I crave intelligence. And I crave a connection; I play best when I've cultivated some kind of relationship with someone, where we've developed a level of trust and understanding of each other. Frankly, I'm looking for the kind of person I'd want to develop a long-term relationship with, even if that isn't my primary goal. Experience in the lifestyle is a plus. You should know that I'm really only looking for single doms. If you're married or in a committed relationship, feel free to pass on by. Casual scening is not my style; at the very least, I want regular encounters (that could lead to more). You should know that I'm not a pain pup, and I don't think "gentleness" and "domination" are mutually exclusive. I desire a broad range of sensual play - from ritual and other, traditional Ds play to simple bedroom bondage and tie and tease. And, frankly, nothing beats a great romp on a rainy afternoon (or any time, really)! (If you're interested in learning more, just email me at roissygrrl@hotmail.com or look for me as roissygal/roissygrrl on AOL/AIM).03/28/02 DarkDevil...
Washington, D.C...52 y/o Male Black Dom with 10 years experience seeks females...open to all/couples. Some of my main interest are light bondage, spanking nipple torture, intense verbal degeneration and humiliation with some public role playing and daddie's baby girl dress up games and at time watersports. About me: very polite and pleasent person well groomed and excellent social skills can travel anywhere anytime not only the 50 states in usa but europe as well. wishing to meet those who are genuinely intrested in the lifestyle not only to meet in real time but to exchange ideas; also seeking exotic hard to find unusual bondage restrained devices and equipment to heighten and intensify my BDSM pleasures and those of my sub's. benne304@aol.com10/17/01 susanred...
washington dc metro area...40 something female sub with medium experience seeks M 40 and older. I am interested in getting a good hard spanking; no sex. susanred@hotmail.com06/03/05 houseboy...
west virginia... 41 male slave My level of experience is: medium I am seeking: female My main interests: domestic servitude 24/7. why have a boy friend when you can own a slave. hamm@hardynet.com
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